Recluse or Self Love ?

Hello guys, happy new year, we are well in 2018  and I am tad bit too late in my first blog post that went up now almost in the end of January.

What should I say just that I am playing recluse . Well yes that's another facet of mine.

I like to go in my shell from time to time and just hibernate and do nothing at all.

Does that happen to you ? Sometimes I feel I am this weirdo living alone. However I love my own company and the perks of just being by yourself. Listening to the thoughts in your head, dancing to your own music and weaving beautiful dreams or simply the joy of not doing anything at all or just doing things, how and when you please if you please. From childhood, I love to be left on my own. I use to love it when everyone use to go somewhere and leave me alone at home at the pretext of studying even if that meant locked in the house. Well, I use to make a simple snack for myself, cold coffee, read a book or watch my favourite movie (nothing fancy) which still continues today. But the magic of being alone adds this charm to the whole experience.

I love being with my own self and making myself feel special.

Does it happen to you, do you understand the urge of having your own space and enjoying your own company from time to time or am I the only recluse here ? or should I say basking in self love. 

and with that a simple casual outfit for a day at the mall. 

TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF IS THE FIRST SECRET TO HAPPINESS 

- ROBERT MORLEY-

Outfit Details

Dress - Pantaloons 

Bag - Rocky S 

Footwear - Footin

watch - Espirit

Why I Like Only A Closed Few Around

I am not shy neither am I introvert in fact I mingle with people in no time. When I go out to a new place or party I gel around pretty easy and then i just leave it to that. A nice time spent in that moment. Its not that I don't like people, its just that I don't want unnecessary drama in my life. I believe in the great philosophy that even if you have few closed people you can count on your fingers you are lucky and blessed. After all according to another great one you are sum of characteristics of closed people in your life. So I chose wisely rather I connect with people not that easily.

I believe in every one comes in your life for a reason and for a time so enjoy that and learn from them. Let them go without holding grudges or stretching things till they get bad. Sometimes you grow up or you just become a different person and status quo of the relationship changes - then instead of holding on, learn to live with good memories. After all decluttering is required in every aspect of your life. Don't get me wrong I don't judge, I just live life and its a short one, I want to be happy and so why complicate it with people who don't add to the beauty of it. Keep it simple na .. hence a closed few of my circle keep me sane . 

Shirt - Limeroad

Jeggings - Zara

Neckpiece - Jabong

Bracelet - Vero Moda 

Footwear - Inc 5 

Bag - Rocky S 

Photo credits - Jerlyn 

xoxo

Bhakti

Simply Complex or no ?

It's been a long long time that we chatted up ... and I am so sorry for that. Honestly I am caught up in a huge project which is really close to my heart. Very soon I shall share with you where I was lost.

But today I just felt like catching up with you guys, rather I itched to write to you, craved to blog. In this long time I honestly had a writer's block where I didn't feel like writing and just wanted to focus on my project but today all of a sudden it just felt empty not to chat with you all . 

So long story short here I am.. 

I realised that I am simply complex or complex simple and then I remembered a quote from Marlyn Monroe .... 

I think I am a mixture of Simplicity and Complexes but I am beginning to understand myself more now - Marlyn Monroe 

And I just left it at that. 

On a lighter note the monsoon is tantalising and leaving us asking for more .... the weather is beautiful ... sometimes brutal but pretty nevertheless ...

Simple outfit to conquer the complexities.
I love the t-shirt denim days.

xoxo

Bhakti

Baraza Launch and Butterfly shoes...

Baraza

The newest watering hole in Pune. 

 And we were there for the launch. 

Stunning place with island vibes.. 

Beautiful ambience, loved the drinks and the food was on point. The music just kept us swaying to the beats. 

You should definitely give this place a try. 

Till then check ours out.

This is what I wore to the launch. 

A simple clean cut dress goes a long way. I love the minimilastic designs. Paired it up with a statement neckpiece from Globus and wedges ( I am so not comfortable in stilettos, give me wedges any time of the day). 

You can check out other LBD looks.

Had an awesome time dancing the night way.

Certainly did love the ambience, indoor section with vibrant blues. 

The outdoor had a relaxed vibe and certain calmness to it. 

Had a fun time can't wait to get back to the dance floor with some mean drinks and those juicy prawns that we went crazy for. 

Check out the madness ... 

On that note ..... 

After letting my hair down and partying wild.. the wanderer in me ... just wanted to be and travel ... which makes my heart dance with glee..
So here I was roaming on the outskirts in brick kilns and cement (jharoka) shops on the highways ... I really don't know what they are called. They make and sell at the same place .. and it is art .. art just surrounds us, one needs to just open the eyes and see with the right perspective. Everything is so beautiful, if you want it to be. The process of immersing the done pieces and keeping them in water so that they harden enough ... so pretty ... the whole view.

So here I was with butterflies on my feet. Just apt na for me ... for the girl who always wants to fly free.. with colours dancing beside she ... 

I got these from Koovs and they are so comfortable and pretty. Don't you think so ? 

From where I stand I see everything with a beautiful trance. .... 

Oh my darling butterfly shoes,  fly me around to sunshine, flowers and more... 

For this little wandering heart never sits still,, always looking out for new valleys and hills... 

xoxo

Bhakti 

Goa Holiday Lookbook and more

Check out the Goa Look book here at the vlog along with behind the scenes..



Check out more posts here
Best Breakfast in Goa
Goa Stay @ Silver Sand Holiday Village
Goa OUtfit

Hope you enjoyed....

Until we meet again...

xoxo
Bhakti

Goa Vibes

Its the holiday season and everyone is in a merry mood. Its time to celebrate, its time to travel, see new places, take a break and unwind. Its time to pamper yourself and be happy.

For many living in India especially in Maharashtra or the neighbouring states or even abroad - its Goa time.

This loved place is always charming but come the holiday winter season its sparkling like a diamond.

Perfect and peak time to go to Goa.

We just had our share of Goa some time back but I am here again thinking of it and craving the Goan food, sandy beaches and beautiful people and laid back life.

While I plan my next holiday just giving you a peek in my Goa diaries outfit.

You can also check out more Goa post on travelling, stay, food to plan that perfect vacation.

Outfit Details

Top- New Zealand Market

Shorts - Limeroad

Bag - Be for Bag

Flip Flops - Goa Flea Market

Neckpiece and Ring - Pink Pvssy Bangkok

Anklet - Flea Market

Glares - Forever 21

Happy Holidays !

xoxo

Bhakti

Musing over My NYE Look from StalkBuyLove

New year is just round the corner and usual I am fussing over what I am going to wear. I always want to be ready for everything as you guys know (crazy control freak - sheepish grin ). So ushering the New Year is a big deal.
So I have already started musing over my look for the New Year's Eve.
Considering the holiday rush I definitely don't want to shop from crowded stores.
Ordering and selecting with a glass of wine from the comforts of my bed sounds more like me.
So turning over to the chicest website to shop the latest and stylish ensembles - definitely StalkBuyLove it is.

Though I am not sure about my NYE plans as yet, one thing is definite that I want to bring in the new and bid adieu to old in completely my style. So here I am playing with three looks - one for house party with friends, one with family and one at a chic pub just to be on the safer side... who knows...

First Look

So for the 1st look -Plush Pub night look.
I am going with a chic maxi with a little oomph.
I will pair it with smart mean black stilettos and a Black clutch and I am ready to dance all New Year Eve.

Red Fawn Maxi Dress

Red Lace Maxi Dress

Rs 2,199

Second Look

So my next look is for a house party - I will pair this simple cut out casual number with smart wedge heels and the simplicity clutch for a fun an stylish look

Zelter Dress

Black Polyester Skater Dress

Rs 1,449

Simplicity Clutch

Clutches

Rs 1,099

Third Look

My third and the last look is with parents - so I am being a little more comfortable and conservative yet with a jazz.

So I am pairing a sweatshirt with a sequinned long skirt with black stilettos and the simplicity clutch.

Bingo I am ready to celebrate NYE with parents.

Prowers Sweat

Metallic Polyester Sweatshirt

Rs 1,549

Rene Skirt

Black Sequin Midi Skirt

Rs 1,499

My NYE look is all sorted. I hope you enjoyed all the looks, I have started shopping already. I have linked all the looks for your convenience. So get going guys.

Let me know your views and what look are you going in for.

Until we meet again.

Happy Holidays Shopping....

xoxo

Bhakti

Pop of colours and a Pink Rikshaw in Goa

Recently we went on a mini break to just relax and catch up on ourselves.

Where else but -- Goa !! It beats everything hands down when it comes to the lazy life, sun, sea, good food and some me time. What else does one need from life. Sorted isn't it ;p

The Goa posts about this trip have been pending but what with Diwali and then Trump and Modi Sarkar move. So finally I decided to write and rejuvenate. The post I am beginning with is a colourful one - as you must have guessed from the tittle (I really do require some colour and energy right now).

So on that note lets dive into our Goan Sojourn.

The Goa Winter mornings and sun is beautiful and when in Goa I just let my little Boho heart wander.

I play with colours like there is no tomorrow and just let myself be (as if it was a question of life and death). I do take my holidays very seriously you see. After all Life is one big holiday isn't it ? :)

 

As I warned you colour alert and more ahead !!

I just love my colourful drinks with or without umbrella.

Right here is a pink strawberry lemonade which I am cradling with so much love and greed ;p

Here I go swooshing my skirt in the sunlight and flaunting my colours.

There is only one dress code when on holiday (especially Goa) carefree comfort -Now I think of it actually that's my style mantra otherwise too.

& just like that the sun gave way to rains and the sky poured its heart out.

& just like that I hitched myself a pink Rikshaw ride to match my mood.

Wish I could get it back with me to Pune (may be we can have hues of pretty pink Rikshaws, then travelling in this traffic might be that much better - thoughts oh thoughts).

So this was a preview for all the colours and Goa craziness coming your way in the upcoming posts.

So stay tuned.

Outfit Details

Top - Limeroad  similar

Skirt - Nuon - better

Sandals - Bata same

Shades - Forever 21

Rings - Jabong and Pink Pvssy

Bag - Be for bag

Do let me know your thoughts.

Until next time.

Stay cheerful.

xoxo

Bhakti